Comments for http://zazenlife.com A Self Development Blogging Community of Higher Awareness Mon, 27 Jul 2015 09:30:13 +0000 hourly 1 Comment on How To Consciously Remove Negative Emotions by How To Improve Your Brain Function - http://zazenlife.com/2013/11/20/consciously-remove-negative-emotions-install-positive-emotions/#comment-193369 Mon, 27 Jul 2015 09:30:13 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=20070#comment-193369 […] Break negative thoughts with diversion. Go for a walk. Call a friend. Go to a […]

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Comment on The Power of Positive Thinking by How To Improve Your Brain Function - http://zazenlife.com/2011/12/26/the-power-of-positive-thinking/#comment-193356 Mon, 27 Jul 2015 06:57:09 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=34#comment-193356 […] Think positively. You’ll do better if you affirm “I can pass this exam” rather than “I’ll never make […]

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Comment on 12 Ways to Identify Past Life Friends, Lovers, & Enemies by Lianne Downey http://zazenlife.com/2013/11/20/12-ways-identify-past-life-friends-lovers-enemies/#comment-193332 Mon, 27 Jul 2015 02:11:39 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=20039#comment-193332 Wow, Jeremy, you have certainly complicated this one!

“I know for sure she is not my soul mate because she doesn’t make me feel good…” So why do you care about her at all?

“I’m not sure she deserves it because she’s been very distant.” That sounds so mean and cruel.

“It is my fault but my feelings were too strong and I was consumed by rage.” Well, what woman would want to have anything to do with a man, who is by gender larger and stronger and more dangerous, who is consumed by rage?

“I feel so guilty and im still in pain I want to make things right.” So, does that mean you care for her, or you don’t? Is it only your ego that is in pain because, while you dawdled and played hard to get, she found someone who was genuine and did not play games with her?

Are you hearing yourself?

A truly “good deed” is always a good thing, but “good deed” becomes tricky in the definition. What you might consider “good,” she might not. What I read in your post is a lot of conflicted, still-raging emotion, anger, and not much true caring or love for this woman. How old are you, I wonder? Seriously, you don’t yet seem to have control over your emotions and they seem self-focused, as young people often are. Perhaps the best thing you can do now is to leave this woman alone.

If you’ve recognized some kind of past life with her, very well. That should tell you why your emotions are raging so out of control: they do not belong or fit with your present-life, actual circumstances. They belong to some long-ago past when one of you disappointed the other, or hurt the other. Sounds as if you have been playing out old emotional hurts and games, back and forth, and it’s time to wake up and realize who you both are in the present. That is why I say it might be best to just walk away. There is no way to go back into the past and balance the scales. All we can do is to love and respect and honor people in the present.

But as always, only you can determine your best course of action. I am only here to reflect back to you, some of what you are saying, so that you might begin to hear it from a present-life perspective. Take some deep breaths. Try to consider that you might have over-reacted. After all, you said it yourself that you really don’t care for her that much. So, why so angry when she found another? Or when she felt “cold” toward you? These are all clues that you are dealing with a past life memory, out of proportion and inappropriate in your present lifetime, and a wounded ego—your own. Try not to hurt each other again, and you will then be doing a true “good deed” for both of you! Best wishes to you! I hope you will take some time to consider these words, and get off the merry-go-round with this individual.

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Comment on The After-Effects of The Atomic Bombs on Hiroshima & Nagasaki by Life-long Learning through Four Animated War Films | Design Storm http://zazenlife.com/2011/12/29/the-after-effects-of-the-atomic-bombs-on-hiroshima-nagasaki/#comment-193307 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 22:38:36 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=3088#comment-193307 […] A Piece of History A picture of the health hazards of the nuclear bombing in Japan: http://zazenlife.com/2011/12/29/the-after-effects-of-the-atomic-bombs-on-hiroshima-nagasaki/ […]

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Comment on 12 Ways to Identify Past Life Friends, Lovers, & Enemies by Jeremy http://zazenlife.com/2013/11/20/12-ways-identify-past-life-friends-lovers-enemies/#comment-193211 Sat, 25 Jul 2015 21:59:42 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=20039#comment-193211 Hello Lianne,

I would like some advice from you please. Three years Ago a girl came into my life. As soon as I met her I was instantly attracted to her. Never in my life have I felt such a strong attraction for someone. She was interested but I took my time and she moved on. She met somebody she fell head over heels for and it killed me. The pain I went through is undescribable. I gave her a hard time over it and made myself look really stupid. She did feel bad and for her birthday I gave her a special personalized gift. I won her over, she really loved me for it even gave me a second chance however I was so angry with her for having sex with him and my ego had been so damaged I was foolish and slept with many girls just to get revenge. In the end it drove her away and now shes angry with me and has no interest or love. I still want her, i know for sure she is not my soul mate because she doesn’t make me feel good but there is no doubt I k ow this soul from a past life. I want to make things right and try and be friends with her because deep down she is angood girl. Just very insecure. I have made something nice for her on the internet which im sure she will find when she googles her name. Im not sure she deserves it because shes been very distant. It is my fault but my feelings were too strong and I was consumed by rage. Do you think I should keep this second gift for her on the internet? Will it help us be friends in the future even though things are bad now. I feel so guilty and im still in pain I want to make things right. Even if its years later I don’t care I just want peace as things are quite bad between us now. I messages her months ago she did reply but she was very cold. I want to know if one last good deed can help things in the future.

Thanks

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Comment on 12 Ways to Identify Past Life Friends, Lovers, & Enemies by Lianne Downey http://zazenlife.com/2013/11/20/12-ways-identify-past-life-friends-lovers-enemies/#comment-192824 Thu, 23 Jul 2015 22:33:19 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=20039#comment-192824 Prompted by your question, I have now written that article about how to sort the angels from the demons in your head, and it is posted here.

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Comment on 12 Ways to Identify Past Life Friends, Lovers, & Enemies by Lianne Downey http://zazenlife.com/2013/11/20/12-ways-identify-past-life-friends-lovers-enemies/#comment-192823 Thu, 23 Jul 2015 22:29:13 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=20039#comment-192823 I think your experience is all too common, Anonymous. But you had your reasons for marrying as you did, for carrying children into this world. Try to focus on the benefits and happiness you are gaining from where you are. I believe we choose these circumstances for the purpose of learning and growing as a soul. Those who love us, and those we love, will always be close to us in spirit. But sometimes, we just have to go to work in another part of town, if you know what I mean. Life isn’t perfect, and that’s how we are forced to grow and become better people.

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Comment on Never Mind Consciousness, Mind the Subconscious by Understanding The Law of Vibration - http://zazenlife.com/2014/03/14/never-mind-consciousness-mind-subconscious-mind/#comment-192748 Thu, 23 Jul 2015 09:01:51 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=20895#comment-192748 […] Most importantly however, change the beliefs and thoughts buried in your subconscious mind […]

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Comment on The Law of Attraction & Manifesting Abundance by Understanding The Law of Vibration - http://zazenlife.com/2011/12/13/the-law-of-attraction-manifesting-abundance/#comment-192747 Thu, 23 Jul 2015 09:00:33 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=1200#comment-192747 […] If you don’t like what you have been attracting in your life, raise your vibration to invoke positive power and effectively apply the Law of Attraction. […]

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Comment on How to Squash Negative Thought Patterns by Numerology: The Universal Mathematics - http://zazenlife.com/2013/09/13/how-to-squash-negative-thought-patterns/#comment-192685 Wed, 22 Jul 2015 13:03:58 +0000 http://zazenlife.com/?p=19257#comment-192685 […] At a young age, I like many others, was a victim to the energetic state emitted from other beings within my reality. I had no choice but to deal with these beings, and succumb to their lower vibrations and negative energy. […]

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